tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-51332790285082898902024-02-20T16:58:43.845-08:00it's a beautiful thing....By Sarah PetrescuSarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-55623128660302213672013-01-10T21:39:00.000-08:002013-01-11T16:00:08.386-08:00Solo woman traveller: Indian dangers, Canadian goggles<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: large;">I met my
husband in a Mumbai slum at a Diwali charity event. People always ask if it was
love at first sight. For me it was. I looked at him and saw a dark-skinned
Gregory Peck in a crisp blue dress shirt and pressed jeans with old-fashioned
movie manners and a wide, dimpled smile that could glamour a wailing baby into
a shy giggle – I’ve actually seen it happen. </span></div>
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His story of what he thought of me on first glance is usually along the lines
of: “Who is this crazy girl travelling India by herself? What is she up to?”<br />
In fact, our relationship developed more out of his concern for my safety than
romantic attraction – in the beginning anyway. He gave me the numbers of his
relatives in Goa. He made sure I made trains. He messaged me daily. He
encouraged me to get a local cell phone. He discouraged me from taking
rickshaws at night. He dragged his laptop and work to Bangalore, Calcutta,
Varanasi. He made me choose between him and a solo trip to Rishikesh (it was
the turning point in our relationship).<br />
Did this raise my thick feminist brows? Yes. Did this ruffle my independent,
female feathers? Yes. Did this flatter my archaic romantic sensibilities? Yes –
but in a somewhat ashamed and conflicted way.<br />
After a few months in India, I started to clue in. It wasn’t just him who was
worried it was every Indian I met. I seemed to be living two travel tales; the
thrilling, adventurous exchange between fellow backpackers (many of whom were
single women from developed countries) and the aggressive, flamboyant warnings
of locals to stay in after dark (“you’ll get groped”), stay away from Delhi
(“you’ll get fleeced”), find a friend (“male and a relative, preferably”), or
go to a five-star (“where there are many foreigners”). I started to notice
things – news articles, friends’ stories, my own experiences – that told me I’d
been gravely naïve in my travelling mindset. Eat, Pray, Love-like fantasies
were tinged with unexpected fear and anger for myself and other women.</span></span></div>
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of the recent attention being paid to rape and the harassment of women in
India, I thought I’d share a few of my personal thoughts and experiences for
the consideration of any friends worried about travelling there – especially
the ladies. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">While India
can be a safe and wonderful place for women travelling alone it is not without
serious risks. Being a woman is a different game there. Period. I spent the
majority of my time with Indian women, from slum dwellers and villagers to
young professionals and middle-class housewives. For a 33-year-old single
traveler like me, acknowledging the dangers we all faced (of varying degrees)
and adjusting to it was both painful and humbling. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Every
morning, along with nearly a billion other people, I read the Times of India
newspaper. As a news reporter, I was at first (yes, grotesquely) enthralled by
the amount of bizarre crime stories: Acid assaults, ritual killings, and the
proliferation of openly criminal politicians.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">But I
generally glazed over an abundance of vague and brief stories about
eve-teasing. Sounds kind of fun right? Not quite. Eve-teasing is a jargony way
of downplaying sexual harassment and assault, often very serious cases like
rape and beatings.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">One
morning I read about a 19-year-old Swedish tourist taken into the bushes and
raped by two rickshaw drivers on the same route I’d argued with my husband
(then boyfriend) that I should take alone a few nights before.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">A few
days later the story of a woman in Calcutta, who was lured by a job offer,
brutally raped and left for dead, garnered national attention. Not because it
was horrific but mostly because West Bengal minister Mamta Banerjee – yes, a
woman – claimed the story was fabricated to malign her government. Savvy
detectives proved her wrong and nearly lost their jobs in doing so. The
majority of the debate surrounding this story was, similar to the Delhi case,
about what women should do to avoid rape.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">In fact,
here’s a long-story-short with a disturbing zinger. An afternoon outing with
women and children from the slum a friend works in went awry when we lost a
four-year-old girl. Kum kum wandered out of the amusement park, past a security
guard and into the chaotic streets of Mumbai. Luckily, a kind man on a bike who
looks for lost children turned her into the police station. As we walked out of
the station, my friend was in shock over a t-shirt one of the detectives was wearing.
It said: Help stop rape – Consent.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Men are
everywhere in India. Everywhere. On more than one occasion, I was stopped by
groups of them to take a picture. Not me kindly taking a picture for them – as
I first assumed – but me taking a picture with them or being asked to pose for
them. This got freaky real quick. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The first
time I was groped was in Goa. I was walking home from dinner in Calangute with
two Egyptian girls I met at my guesthouse. A young man rode by on a bicycle and
grabbed my bottom. I was so shocked and embarrassed I just laughed politely
like a good Canadian. The Egyptian women lost it, screaming and swearing bloody
murder. They were used to this kind of thing and to fighting back.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The
second time I was alone, in Bangalore. I was on my way back to the ashram after
a beautiful bharatanatyam dance class. The scent of fresh jasmine and
frangipani hung thick as the banyan canopies. I was so lost in love with my
thoughts of India I paid no attention to the boy on the bicycle coming towards
me. Emboldened by the sight of my arms full with bags he went for a full breast
grope. No words. I walked on, blushing, smaller than a nutmeg on the side of
the road.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I met
some incredible female travelers on yoga retreats, cultural adventures,
personal emancipation journeys and plain getaways. Their boldness was
admirable, inspiring and sometimes plain dumb-lucky. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Take the
Italian woman I met in Bangalore, Michaela. She was THE cliché: Dreadlocks,
hammer pants, prayer beads, mehndi and even a bindhi. On her first trip to
India, she lived with a family in a northern village and drank the unfiltered
water they did. Hospital. Six months. Nearly died. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">On her
second trip, she took a private charter bus through a washed out mountain road
in monsoon season. It crashed. Nearly died. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">On her
third trip, all of her things were stolen in Mumbai. Rupee and passport-less,
she accepted an offer to stay with legless beggar in the most-dangerous slum.
She did. For two weeks. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I took
her shopping to a locals mall for cheap kurtas and, facing a lack of dressing
rooms, she ripped off her shirt to try one on. No bra. Dumb-lucky.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">In
Varanasi, the cleaner at our hotel ranted at me and my husband about the young
hippie women wandering the ghats drunk and on drugs, looking for gurus and
easily duped by perverts dressed as spiritual healers. He was really upset. He
wanted us to talk to them.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The risks
for good-paying travelers, female or otherwise, are nothing compared to those
most Indian women face every day. But they are there. It’s important for us to
take off our ‘western’ goggles and feel the discomfort of fear and danger
sometimes. There’s no shame in understanding, it’s the root of compassion and
the beginning of change. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">My hope
is that the tragic rape and brutal murder of the young woman in Delhi continues
to fuel awareness and change for India, with the support of women and men all around
the world. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">My
husband visited Canada for the first time this past Christmas. He said he was
surprised and happy to see women in so many public places; working, enjoying,
independent, safe. For the first time he felt OK with stints of us being
separated, knowing I was in here. “This is beautiful,” he told me. “This is how
it should be for every woman.”</span></span></div>
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SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-61269029716380377162012-06-19T19:29:00.001-07:002012-06-19T22:03:02.153-07:00LOVERS LOOKOUT: A dad story from the Sunshine Coast<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: large;">On the corner of Trail Avenue and Dolphin Street in Sechelt,
B.C., across from Hackett Park at the newish four-way stop is an atrocious
display of sidewalk architecture and a sign that makes the locals snicker but their
hearts gleam.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The sidewalk, established in 1987, covered a gutter of delightful
tadpoles for one smalltown block and culminates in a jarring two-foot slope of
concrete so dangerous that poles and chains were erected to protect the
unsuspecting pedestrians from the drop whilst breathing in the spectacular view
of the town’s singular traffic light (we now have three) and a burgeoning mountainside
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<span style="font-size: large;">Flabbergasted by this show of civic planning, my father, a
man of impeccable taste in design, went to task. In the basement shop of our
rented home – one of the town’s oldest – across from the jilted sidewalk, he
sawed, whittled, and painted “LOVERS LOOKOUT” SECHELT on a wood sign and, with a
few screws, christened the sidewalk a local legend.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">This past Father’s Day my brother and I set out to spruce up
the sign, faded to a dull brown over its 25-year sojourn. Many will recognize
Lovers Lookout but few know the story behind it. Such is life in a quirky
smalltown, where highway bus stops are stocked with chairs left by mystery Good
Samaritans because there are no bus shelters, where chainsaw-made stump gnomes
can be found in the woods, where the free shed at the dump is a trove of
treasures and burly men in big trucks scour switchbacks at Christmas for stranded
skiers. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">My father’s name was Dave Petrescu. He was a carpenter by
trade, a photographer by hobby and a shop teacher at Pender Harbour Secondary
School for 16 years. He was many other things as well; an incredible father, husband
and friend included. Lovers Lookout was just one of his many design triumphs.
He and his students built the Madeira Park information sign, he designed a
yellow cedar hope chest just for me (though I later discovered most of the Harbour had
made their own in shop class), he built our kitchen cabinets with a
500-year-old stump from the Sechelt waterfront, bronze cast his own thumb to
replace a gearshift knob on his three-in-a-tree GMC truck and once sculpted a
bronze bust of my mother. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">My brother and I were just eight and five-years-old when my
dad made that sign and it has reminded us of him with embarrassment, pride and
sadness in the 25 years since. He died nearly nine years ago from skin cancer.
He was at peace, in love with his family, his community and his life. May this
story be one example of how we never really lose a loved one; they stay with us
in the stories, humour and signs that come after they’re gone. </span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 15pt;">Notes from Facebook for
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• Facebook search is a Rolodex of 850M, searchable by place
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Check out the Poynter Institutes NewsU Webinar Series here: <a href="https://www.newsu.org/social-media-webinar-series-2012">https://www.newsu.org/social-media-webinar-series-2012</a></div>
</div>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-70994153543652404322011-11-15T21:10:00.000-08:002011-11-15T21:10:00.067-08:00From Bombay, with love ...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://dirtywallproject.com/blog/wp-content/gallery/sarah/dsc_6413.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="165" src="http://dirtywallproject.com/blog/wp-content/gallery/sarah/dsc_6413.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
<strong> From Bombay, with love: </strong>My time with the Dirty Wall Project in Saki Naka slum community, Mumbai<br />
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We step out of the autorickshaw onto the side of a dust, traffic and waste-filled road. The people, dogs and cars move around each other like notes in a symphony that miraculously do not collide – at least not as often as you’d think. The brown veil of pollution hangs low, intensifying every shallow breath, sweet and sour scent to this newcomer’s senses. We follow a clearing through a garbage dump of sorts and come upon the entrance to the Saki Naka slum community in the Andheri East area of Mumbai.... Read the full post on the Dirty Wall Project website: <a href="http://dirtywallproject.com/blog/?p=2721&pid=image-1392" target="_blank">http://dirtywallproject.com/blog/?p=2721&pid=image-1392 </a><br />
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</div>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-21807609733053829562011-10-15T21:55:00.000-07:002011-10-15T21:55:39.975-07:00THE LABOUR OF LEAVING<span style="font-size: large;">I’m laying on a bed watching my newborn nephew squirm and stare like a little shrimp with wide inky eyes, not yet quite part of this world, a tiny fish plucked from the water. We’re in the home I grew up in and helped build, in the room where my father spent his last days just over eight years ago. Today would have been his 60th birthday, so we’re baking a cake – angel food, obviously.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Here I am again, listening intently for another’s breath and heartbeat. This one is so small yet strong. He is his grandfather’s namesake, David, born on his father’s 30th birthday – a breath of life and joy in a family that’s seen too much loss and sorrow in the past 10 years.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I am reminded, bitterly, of the days and weeks spent in this room, slipping in and out of sleep as I watched my father die from cancer. I remember the endless episodes of Law and Order, reading him the Lee Valley tools catalogue, massaging his swollen feet and the ever-present soundtrack of CBC radio. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I remember sitting vigil for days when he first slipped out of consciousness. I dozed off and awoke to find him gone – literally, not there. The bed was empty. Confusion and panic ensued. His slippers were also gone. Could someone barely 100-lbs, on intravenous morphine, who hadn’t spoken or woke for three days just get up and take off? Apparently, yes. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Dad had an abrupt second wind and seeing me asleep took advantage of his chance to escape. It was Saturday, you see, perhaps his last. This meant it might be his last chance ever to hit a garage sale. We found him trucking down our street, coming from the multi-family, cul-de-sac yard sale a block away, with a ‘90s Casio keyboard and various trinkets in tow. I have no idea where he got cash. He was eccentric, defiant and amusing to the end. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I am reminded of the labour of death. The waiting, the pain, the love, the unabashed humour about bodily functions and frailties. The fear and taking over of inevitable physical change. The departure. The arrival. Is the labour of death not so different from the labour of birth?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Change of any kind is laborious, especially when the focus is on the endings – of a life, a love, a career, a path.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Cultural mythologist Joseph Campbell said. “We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">He also said, “You can’t make an omelet without breaking eggs.” </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">This is why change is so hard – it breaks us. When, and if, we’re able to put ourselves together do we become “stronger in our broken places,” as Hemingway suggests? </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Leonard Cohen sings: “There is a crack in everything/That’s where the light gets in.”</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">And if it doesn’t get in do we remain broken, static in our shadowy traumas, surges of fear lashing in our bellies like live wires? </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">This is the journey, the individual adventure. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The decision to take a one-year sabbatical from my job as a newspaper reporter stemmed equally from opportunity and physical exhaustion. I’ve sometimes compared Island life to Calypso’s Isle in Ulysses, a sensual womb of comforts and support at its best and a stagnating time warp at its worst. As hard as it is to leave, even for a short while, it can only be best.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">This year is as much for professional development as it is personal. Courses, conferences and fellowships are being considered. But a more experiential form of learning calls first. This stems from an interest in how people receive and share information that matters most and what new forms of storytelling emerge. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">After only a week back in my hometown Sechelt, I’m reminded of the intriguing travel of news in small communities. Stories break with “Did you hear?” at the mall, the hardware store, in grocery parking lots. A few graphs in the local rag or even the big-city dailies can’t compare to the build and unraveling of personal connections, detail and emotional responses to tragedies or hot issues.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">It’s good to immerse yourself in new communities every now and then – especially for a journalist. We spend our working lives gathering intimate details about others in short intense exchanges to invite interest, dialogue and change – yet we strive to maintain an emotional distance to be objective, to get the job done. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">When the distancing seeps into your personal life is when it’s time to change, to challenge perspective.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Tomorrow, I’ll leave for Amsterdam to meet a dear friend from journalism school. One week later, I’ll leave for India – I’m not sure for how long or what exactly will unfold. I am fortunate to arrive in Mumbai and spend time with a Victoria friend, Kane Ryan, his parents, and the Dirty Wall Project – a charity supporting one of the many slum communities with the mantra “See a need and fill it.” For the past year I’ve followed Kane’s blog, <a href="http://dirtywallproject.com/blog/">http://dirtywallproject.com/blog/</a>, a frank, earnest and visually stunning portrayal of his work, colleagues and community. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I plan to connect with a certain newspaper night security guard, who works two jobs to support his family in Victoria and a rural school in Northern India, as well as a high school friend of my father’s who left Canada to become a Hari Krishna in the ‘70s and work with inner city kids in Bangalore. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">One of the most-difficult items to leave will be my laptop, which I’m trading for a moleskine notebook – where poems and drawings will replace tweets and third-person status updates…. Until an internet café calls – which I’m sure it will often.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The Gettin’ Higher Choir did more than sing about love and happiness at an afternoon concert Sunday. The more-than-200-member group helped a fellow chorister in an elaborate surprise proposal to his girlfriend, also in the choir.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Choral director Shivon Robinsong invited Niilo Van Steinburg and Sara McLaughlin to introduce themselves to the audience before the choir was set to sing “Love and Happiness,” a song by Kimmie Rhodes and Emmylou Harris.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Robinsong told the crowd they like to invite choir members to tell their stories every now and then. Unbeknownst to McLaughlin, the invitation was a ploy to get the couple stage front — a ploy planned by her boyfriend, Robinson, co-director Denis Donnelly and hundreds of singers.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">McLaughlin told the audience: “Just after we started dating, Niilo thought we could join the Gettin’ Higher Choir as something we could do together as a couple.” </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Van Steinburg said he enjoyed the choir so much he wanted to try conducting it — right then. Robinsong obliged and Van Steinburg took the podium, lifting his hands to a wall of voices singing the name “Sara.” </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">He asked to Donnelly to help him the second time and as they sang his girlfriend’s name, he got down on one knee and offered her a crystal rose singing, “Will you marry ...” with the choir. The “me” was sung by Van Steinburg alone.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The audience, which included many of the couple’s family members who had travelled for the surprise, went wild. McLaughlin said yes and the couple sang “Love and Happiness” side-by-side with the choir and soloist Kim E. Willoughby, gazing into each other’s eyes.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Afterward, McLaughlin said she almost didn’t make the performance because of a cold. She had no idea what her partner was planning as he cleverly used the rose to propose instead of her grandmother’s heirloom ring and Yukon gold that they’d discussed in the past.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Robinsong said this is the first surprise proposal the choir has performed, but it is not the first romance to blossom in the group. Several couples have met in the Gettin’ Higher Choir and some have married.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">“Too many to even count,” Robinsong said. “Something about singing together really opens up the heart. Plus, people look very beautiful when they sing.”</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The Gettin’ Higher Choir was founded in 1996 by Robinsong. It is an non-auditioned community choir with a mission to raise funds for community projects in Africa and B.C. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Sunday’s concert was the second in a series to raise money for the Power of Hope, a non-profit arts program for youth. Texas singer Rhodes was scheduled to perform at the concerts but cancelled two weeks ago because of her husband’s illness.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Luckily, Willoughby and Cortes Island singer/singwriter Rick Bockner stepped in to save the day.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">For more information on the Gettin’ Higher Choir, visit: <a href="http://gettinhigherchoir.ca/" target="_blank">gettinhigherchoir.ca</a></span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">In reporting some stories, words are not enough. Or, they can only convey part of the story. This is what attracted me, a newspaper reporter, to using video as a medium online. It’s disheartening sometimes to hear veteran journalists in my field dismiss the web without considering its use in sharing comprehensive, heartening stories in the public interest. I wish creativity would replace cynicism, because we could all use their expertise and ideas.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">This video was created to accompany a print feature about budget cuts to weight loss surgeries in B.C. I worked with fellow reporter, Katherine Dedyna, as she gathered facts and focus. Her story focused on the larger issue – wait times – and went into incredible detail. This is the benefit of print reporting.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">I chose to focus my video on two people affected by obesity and show their lives and emotions. This is the benefit of video. It is one thing to describe the difficulties a 500-plus lb 26-year-old man faces. It is another to see him walk, breathe and hear the pain in his voice. Just as it is one thing to describe a weight-loss surgery success story, it is another to see a young mother who once weighed 328 lbs touch her toes and jump on a trampoline.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">The video was shot on a Kodak Zi8 and edited in iMovie. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">Print story: <a href="http://www.timescolonist.com/life/long+wait+drastically+cuts+back+number+weight+loss+surgeries/4082306/story.html">http://www.timescolonist.com/life/long+wait+drastically+cuts+back+number+weight+loss+surgeries/4082306/story.html </a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/hzRsrTj76G0?feature=player_embedded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">My nonna Chiarinna Bevacqua taught me to make gnocchi – sort of – on a recent trip to Prince George, B.C. Nonna is from the Calabrian village Mangone in Italy. She came to Canada in the 60s with her five children to be with my nonno, Felice Bevacqua. He had left Italy to work on the railroad in Prince Rupert several years earlier and struggled to save the money to bring his family over. The generous Italian family he was boarding with put away a portion of his rent for years until there was enough money for the whole family to make the trip.</span>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-52627040023448243682010-12-24T17:24:00.000-08:002010-12-24T17:24:47.642-08:00Cholera in Haiti: A young doctor's story<i>This story is a note shared on Facebook by my friend Amy Osborne, a doctor working in Haiti during the horrific recent cholera outbreak. I met Amy a few years ago when a group of friends and I invited her to speak at a fundraiser about her experiences as a midwife in Darfur. She has the storyteller's gift, a great heart and courage to help others. She inspired me to donate to the Cholera Treatment Centres set up by Médecins Sans Frontières in Haiti. I hope you do the same:<a href="http://www.msf.ca/"> http://www.msf.ca/</a></i><br />
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i was hunched down by a bed, making a patient drink ORS when Deska, our driver, came up and tapped me frantically on the shoulder. he tells me in French (most people here speak creole) that there is an emergency. i follow him to the other ward and find a teenage boy lying half-naked on one of the cholera beds. i think to myself that he must be mortified to be lying there, so exposed, his naked buttocks hanging over the hole cut in the cot so his diarrhea will simply fall into the bucket placed below his bed. as i get closer i start to see that he's not mortified because he's barely conscious. his eyes have sunken into his head and the skin on his face is pulled taut over his now-prominent cheekbones. i rush over and feel for a pulse in his right wrist. it's not there and his hand is cool. i grab his other wrist and there's still no pulse. i tell deska to run for one of the doctors and he goes. i feel the boy's neck and i can't feel his carotid pulse. i know he's alive because his breathing is fast and furious. i ask one of the nurses for a stethoscope and she tells me there are none. i ask her to start an IV in one arm and i'll start one in the other. she gets to work and can't find a vein- he's severely dehydrated. another nurse comes in and i ask her where the doctor is. she shrugs. I tell her to start the next IV and i go run for a doctor who i'm hoping, at the very least, will have a stethoscope and, at most, will be better at starting IVs on severely dehydrated patients than we are. i find Kanako and she goes to find one of the elusive doctors while i go back to check on the boy. his breathing is slowing down. his brother, who has clearly been told in my absence that ORS is the key to survival, is trying to pour ORS down his throat. i want to tell him to stop because the boy is barely unconscious and can't swallow, but i also know that it's too late for this boy and i think the brother needs to feel that he did something. i notice something white coming out of the boy's mouth and i look closer- white foam is bubbling out. it begins to pour out of his mouth and both nostrils. at first i wipe it away, but then i notice that he's not choking on it because he's no longer breathing. i sit back and just watch it flow out. the doctors arrive and one of them stands back and observes (he has a tendency to be less than inclined to touch cholera patients) while the other doctor does a few half-hearted chest compressions. we haven't been able to find a vein and there is nothing more to be done. it's over.<br />
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there is little time for compassion in a cholera outbreak. the "corpses" are highly contagious and need to be quickly cleaned with disinfectant and then put in a body-bag to be buried. i want to give the family time to grieve- they just lost a 19-year-old boy- but the families of the other patients want him gone immediately. someone runs for a body-bag. i pull the sheet over his face as people are gathering around to gawk. his mother is in shock and doesn't seem to believe that he's really gone. she goes over and pulls the sheet down. she touches his face. she pulls the sheet down further and touches his stomach. then she touches his feet, one at a time. i don't know what she's looking for, but she doesn't find it. she sits down beside him and looks incredulous. I am about to be the only person in the room to cry so i step out onto the balcony and take deep breaths. i manage to pull it together.<br />
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Someone arrives with the bag and Kanako lays it out on the bed next to his. together we open it and his mother and brother take his arms and legs and lift him into it. Kanako and i reach in and take his hands and lay them on his chest. then we zip the bag closed, over his still open eyes. he doesn't look dead. he looks like even he can't believe that he's gone- that one day he was a normal teenage boy and the next day he died the most degrading death a human being can ever experience.<br />
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cholera is merciless. it robs you of any and all dignity you once had. untreated, you can lose up to 20 litres of fluid a day in the form of diarrhea and vomit. you will lose all of your strength and you will literally lie in a pile of your own diarrhea until you die. the management is simple. you need fluids. it's just that easy. cholera treatment centers (CTCs) are easy to set up. it just takes resources- people and supplies. it just takes someone actually caring.<br />
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why this STILL hasn't been properly implemented here, I have no idea.<br />
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I don't know why I have such a strong belief in justice. but i do. as a Christian, a Libra, a woman, a human being... I have this intrinsic belief in justice- that the world is just. or more realistically, that it can and should be just. in spite of all of the places i've been and the things i've seen that have shown me time and again that life is anything but just, i still believe it can be. and what's happening here isn't just.<br />
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I didn’t know that story then. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">It was his eyes. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">The first time I met Mike I was set up by a mutual friend to give him a ride from Victoria to Cortes Island for a social change conference. All I knew about Mike was that he was older (like 50s), a cultural mythologist, had back problems and would be in my car for at least six hours.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">When he crouched into my front seat and held me with a smile and sparkling eyes, shamanic and childlike, I knew he was good. Otherworldly good. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Mike made many kindred spirits that way. Physicists, Jungians, activists, waitresses and academics – whomever he met and made that connection with stuck. He could see the heart of things and people. He could name it. He could help you name it too. He called it the sweet spot.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">A few months ago a friend and I were having coffee with Mike and we got on to the subject of the Proust questionnaire on the last page of Vanity Fair magazine. We decided to ask each other some of the questions.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Mike was asked: “What is the most overrated virtue?”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Intelligence,” he said.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Coming from a guy who casually debated physics and mathematical systems with the brightest academics, who was sought out to help advise the Obama and Earth Day campaigns on messaging and who could quote many histories, Joseph Campbell and the last book he’d read verbatim, we just rolled our eyes.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">He explained: “If you are intelligent and you don’t have integrity you are incredibly dangerous to this world. “</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Mike and I drove from his studio apartment in James Bay to Fairfield to pick up the next passenger on our journey: Another Mike. This one was a twenty-something beat-boxing youth worker, living in a commune-like dilapidated mansion, where nearly a dozen mountain bikes hung on racks outside the front door.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Mystical Mike loved this. He was fascinated by the bikes and the promise of personalities and connected lives they represented. He and Young Mike immediately bonded, two open souls full of enthusiasm and ideas. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Later, when it was just the two of us, Mystical Mike and I would imagine everyone we’d met at the conference as characters in an Odyssian journey. He said Young Mike was a Magi Type: A rare specimen capable of bringing great powers of good-heartedness to the many Warriors we’d met in activist documentarians, journalists and community leaders.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I asked Mike what my Type was. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“You need to find that out yourself. That’s your journey,” he said. He was so obviously a Teacher.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">When I went to visit him in the hospice a year later he asked me again. “Have you found yourself? Don’t give up. The answer is right there.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">We continued north along the Island highway, bypassing the small communities along the waterfront scenic route until turning off into Courtenay. Our final passenger, Hans, was waiting outside his small house – black beret, leather bag and soul patch in tow.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">The forty-something single dad was a native of the area, an avid writer, photographer, foodie and ballroom dancer. Like the rest of us, he was looking for comrades in work – like-minded people to change the world with, and hopefully make a little bit of a living at it.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">As I drove, I mostly listened to three of the most gracious and lovely men I’ve ever met get to know each other. When I think back to the moment that Hans got into the car and joined in on a conversation and journey that bonded and changed us all I feel so grateful. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“I’ve never met someone who isn’t a storyteller,” Mike told us. “And it isn’t limited to our species.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">You don’t tell your story, you tell their story. This was Mike’s mantra and the premise for how he believed narrative could change the world.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">He told us about helping a small city council change its attitude towards a growing homeless population by using “our homeless” instead of “the homeless” in all its discussions of the subject.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">He quoted Campbell: “Myths are public dreams, dreams are private myths,” and said our job as storytellers is to mobilize the waking dream of a culture.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">He quoted Hemingway, “Life breaks everyone but some are stronger at the broken places.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">It wasn’t until the ride home with just the two of us that I discovered some of Mike’s broken places.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Growing up in Idaho, his life’s passion had been to fly fighter jets in the war. But his eyesight wasn’t good enough. He became a war historian and expert model-maker instead.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">In his late teens he moved to Ontario to go to university. There he met the love of his life, a South American woman named Judy. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Judy had been married and recently left her husband – against her family’s wishes. She and Mike planned to move to Victoria, where he’d study physics and she’d have a chance to start fresh.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“I’d gone ahead to find a place for us and found this great little apartment in a house on Amelia Street,” he said. “Judy’s plan was to finish the semester and come meet me right after.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Mike and Judy wrote letters back and forth to each other daily in what was supposed to be a few months apart. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Then the letters stopped coming,” Mike told me. He continued to write, asking Judy if she’d changed her mind – his heart breaking with each unrequited letter.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“I figured she’d either gone back to her husband or changed her mind about us. Either way I had to accept her wishes,” he said. “It was the darkest time of my life.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Mike dove into his physics studies with intensity, barely leaving the apartment. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">A house fire forced him out, scrambling to find a new place to live.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">It wasn’t until several months later that the true story of what happened to Judy would slowly unravel.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“My landlord called and said she had a bunch of mail for me,” Mike said. The fire damage to his old residence was only on the interior. Because the exterior looked fine, mail had continued to be delivered to residents there despite it being abandoned for months.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">All of Mike’s letters to Judy had been returned with an apology from the Ontario Postal Service. Because of a mail strike, his letters sat in the post office for months. When the strike was over, the recipient, Judy, appeared to have moved with no forwarding address. She never got his letters.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">But now, from his landlord, he finally got hers. Months worth of letters detailing her excited anticipation of their new life together, her worry at not hearing from him, her anger, her sadness, her fear, her frustration and her final resolve to give up and go back to her ex-husband.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">This was the part of the story at which I pulled the car over off a dusty strip of the Malahat Highway and said, “Tell me you found her. Tell me you set things straight.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">He didn’t. And this is the precise point where my understanding of men and women differs. Mike didn’t want to bring any more pain to Judy. She’d made her choice and suffered enough so he let her go.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“You have to find her. You have to tell what happened. She has to know you loved her,” I told him.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“What good would that do now? It’s better this way,” he said.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">The drive was silent for several minutes before Mike turned the subject back to my broken places and me. He had a way of doing that, deflecting his own suffering to delight in the possibility of healing another’s.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I noticed this throughout our relationship. He’d squint and smile through excruciating back pain to spend hours drinking coffee and talking at his office, the Days Inn restaurant. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Even when the back pain turned out to be cancer, a terminal tumour, he held court in the hospital hospice. Family, friends and cohorts came to offer him comfort and still he offered mentorship.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Do good things. You have a lot of power you know,” he told me. My warm hands rubbed his back as he sat on the edge of his bed in a hospital gown drinking a McDonald’s milkshake. “There’s someone I want you to meet. He’s doing really interesting stuff in Africa. It would make a great story.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">His memorial was held a few days ago at the Days Inn, a frosty, bright October morning just a few days before what would have been Mike’s 62nd birthday.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Our ragtag group took over the bar and told stories of Mike’s brilliance and generosity: How he captivated the Secretary General of the United Nations with his thoughts on narrative, how he often babysat and tutored the children of the single-mother waitresses he befriended at Pagliacci’s restaurant 20 years ago and how he listened to everyone with respect and interest regardless of status.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">He died a bachelor but had an immense network of family and friends just as close. I worked up the courage to ask his sister Barbara about Judy.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Yes, he told me about her,” she said. No, he never contacted her. “I never knew her last name… But their souls will meet again. That I’m sure.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">I hope to meet Mike again on some other plain someday. I know I’ll continue to find him in the wisdom he shared. Despite being the biggest Luddite in the very tech-savvy bunch at the social change conference, Mike was the star. The stories he told and questions he asked, and asked us to ask each other reverberated in a soul-shaking way that changes lives, careers and builds bonds. Here are just a few tidbits from my notes at his talk:</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">On the characteristics of an effective storyteller:</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Everyone is a storyteller but a truly effective storyteller possesses three things: A natural ability, a mentor and someone who knows your true face.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Link common knowledge with your narrative with a new emergent story. This is where change happens.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Leadership, learning, health, sustenance and defense. The Ojibwa learned these are the most important elements to society. A good politician has learned this too.”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Sutton’s Law: A lesson in clear storytelling:</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Willie Sutton was a world-class bank robber and escape artist. He evaded the authorities for years and became a notorious celebrity despite very little being known about him as a person. On one occasion when he was caught, a reporter managed to get in a question as he was being taken away. ‘Willie, why do you keep robbing banks?’ she asked. To which Willie replied, ‘That’s where they keep the money.’”</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Five questions you need to be asked:</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">1. Who are you? </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">2. What do you want? </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">3. What are you doing about it? </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">4. Are you satisfied? </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">5. If not, what are you willing to sacrifice?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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</span></div>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-33199422952170420542010-10-04T21:27:00.000-07:002010-10-04T21:39:05.388-07:00My life in Super 8mm films by my dad...My dad, David Petrescu, collected old cameras and was documenting his and our lives on Super 8mm video, box, 35 mm and Rolleiflex cameras since I can remember. When he passed away seven years ago we were left with boxes of film, slides and thousands of pictures he took and developed. Recently, my mother had some of his old films transferred to DVD. I've made short videos from that footage. Putting these together I see what a gift he left us with and what an artistic spirit he was.<br />This video starts with my parents as a young hippie couple living in a cabin by the Nechako River in Prince George, B.C. I come along in 1978, then my brother Nicholas in 1981.<br />When my dad was ill with cancer in 2003 I asked him what the best time of his life was. He said, "Those early days with your mom and you kids. That was so much fun."<br />Here's to you Dad.<br />XO Sarah<br /><br />Watch on my YouTube Channel: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZUDF-1qMso">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZUDF-1qMso</a><br /><br /><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/wZUDF-1qMso?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/wZUDF-1qMso?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-55475038374637824032010-10-04T15:40:00.000-07:002010-10-04T15:44:49.493-07:00My life in Super 8mm films by my dad...Breakdance Party - Fall 1984<br /><br />My brother Nick's third birthday party was a blast. All the neighbourhood kids showed up to bust a move to Michael Jackson. My dad had picked up MJ's Thriller album at the Woodward's in Prince George. Nick (the cutie in the blue and red track suit) was so obsessed with the King of Pop he'd ask mannequins in the mall if they knew him and yell "Michael Jackson!" at every black man we encountered. Very embarrassing...<br /><br /><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/of2xWC6WBPo?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/of2xWC6WBPo?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-49887505810389841122010-10-04T15:28:00.000-07:002010-10-04T15:36:43.620-07:00My life in Super 8mm films by my dad...La Famiglia Bevacqua, 1979ish.<br /><br />Growing up as a young child in Prince George, B.C. my family spent many Sunday afternoons at my mother's folks' place on Winnipeg Street. Nonno Felice and Nonna Chiarinna were from a small village in Calabria, Italy, called Mangone. They joked it was called Man-gone because so many of the men left after the Second World War to work in America. My nonno left in the late 60s to work on the railway in Northern B.C., bringing his family of seven over years later with the help of a generous couple he'd been boarding with. They saved his rent for two years to help him. In this video my dad has his Super 8mm out again. Zio Carmelo, auntie Brenda and cousins Tina and Mark are over visiting - likely for an afternoon filled with gnocchi, wine, gardening and singing. My mom, Rita, is the beauty with the long black hair.<br /><br />XO S<br /><br /><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/UL8PLz3LW5o?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/UL8PLz3LW5o?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-43895702691264860062010-04-19T07:48:00.000-07:002010-04-19T07:58:09.761-07:00Dreams of Jim lead to better thoughts…<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrmoRwPyqzv3ei_ZnwSu0Q76aLSofWz76lOK_5ZwMS4Ka0sIVcyA3z-qtDsOkb4OezpExY-zA9n1Ay2MHCZd09rMlNFDzY8V9xO5cPoIbpiSttY2KWhEwJeMLLRv-AB2soMRPvdUpcPGUH/s1600/l_cb602d784dc84609a65963f475403d0e.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrmoRwPyqzv3ei_ZnwSu0Q76aLSofWz76lOK_5ZwMS4Ka0sIVcyA3z-qtDsOkb4OezpExY-zA9n1Ay2MHCZd09rMlNFDzY8V9xO5cPoIbpiSttY2KWhEwJeMLLRv-AB2soMRPvdUpcPGUH/s400/l_cb602d784dc84609a65963f475403d0e.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5461862813753414338" /></a><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">I've decided to compile some of my favourite blogs, stories and posts that are only available online here to keep track of them. They cover the time period between my last year at Ryerson University in Toronto to two years later, as I settled into a new job as an arts writer in Victoria...</span><br /><br /><br /><br />From MySpace: 15 Oct 06 Sunday <br /> <br />This afternoon I passed out on my green shag rug and awoke two hours later from a very disturbing dream about my first .. and last .. guitar teacher, Jim.<br />Jim was a forty-something guy with greasy long hair, pockmarked cheeks and cigarette breath who wore everything in the fabric known as jean.<br />He was a weekend warrior rock star playing the Coast pub circuit in a cover band called Local Traffic. By day he taught kids guitar at the now defunct Strings and Things in Sechelt.<br />I was given guitar lessons with Jim from my parents for my tenth birthday, inspired by an obsession with the Tracy Chapman Fast Car record and my mom playing House of the Rising Sun very superbly.<br />I lasted three lessons.<br />Jim was a total pig. He burped and farted (I'm pretty sure he was farting, but it was hard to hear) and kept going on and on about how girls never make good guitar players, they don't want to cut their nails, how I won't want to cut my nails and probably quit too, how many great female guitars players have YOU heard of and on and on...<br />So I quit and that's basically when I became a boy-chasing mall rat. Thanks Jim. Stay out of my head please.<br />I guess this sprung to mind because of all the superkids I've been talking to lately. You know, those kids I always go on about who are four-feet, barely in the double digits, hardly say a word, yet can rip out your heart with a Mozart concerto or play Shostakovich with more emotion than most adults I know and then sit down for some and pop and chips.<br />How did they get so good? Not with Jims in their lives. Quite the opposite. The amount of support for kids in music here makes me teary sometimes. As much as I'd like to kibitz with cute rock stars all day .. yeah right .. I love the kids.<br />And I'm starting to listen to music differently, which is kind of weird. Last night during Nosferatu I recall getting this very eerie feeling and then thinking, "Damn. Oboe, you fucking rock!"<br />(I'm also reading this awesome book right now called This is Your Brain on Music: The science of a human obsession, in which I've learned classical music is the original punk rock having directly rebelled from the Catholic church's banning of polyphony [more than one musical part playing at a time] and the interval of an augmented fourth because it was too evil)<br />Anyway, I'm not too sure where this boring stuff is all going other than I'm tired, can't sleep and seem to be consumed by the things I never learned and the things I did learn, but have forgotten and probably won't learn again.<br />The latter thought was compounded by just reading the letter my dad wrote me before he died, in which he swore me to remember and pass on all the important things he taught me to my own children one day like how to chop wood, fish, plant a garden and drive a stick shift. Oops.<br />In memory of my dad, Dave, who would have been 53-years-old today here is a poem the author/artist Harvey Chometsky wrote about him at the age of 23, when he had reputation around Prince George as an odd-ball tour guide with an arcane knowledge of the area.<br /><br /><br />In the Prince George dump there's no scavenging allowed.<br />The reason they give, says Dave, is sanitation.<br />He says the trick .. believe me he knows ..<br />is to go there at lunch,<br />while the workers are eating.<br />Go to the dump for lunch.<br />He says he hates it when bags are soft.<br />There might be dead babies or anything in them,<br />but he hasn't come across one yet thank Christ.<br />Well it's true you know. The soft ones are bad.<br />What you do is keep away from them<br />like I did<br />and still find this poem<br />those picture frames, diaries, notebooks and a compass<br />that hangs on my door,<br />that tells me every morning<br />which direction I'm going.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-79045546243333783942010-04-19T07:46:00.000-07:002010-04-19T07:48:52.510-07:00From Charleston, with Love!From MySpace: May 27, 2007<br /><br />Call me a crazy West Coast leftie, but I don't think it's a co-incidence that every time I'm in a U.S. airport there's been a terrorism alert of some kind from Homeland Security – code yellow, orange or whatever. Combine that with some sorry-looking 21-year-old soldiers kibitzing over shrapnel and gunshot wounds in Iraq and no wonder everyone's too scared to cut down this war. Anyway, I better keep this to myself. I am in the South.<br />Charleston, South Carolina – known as the port city where three out of four slaves from Africa were brought and sold, where Bubba from Forrest Gump set up his shrimp shack (yes it's here), where the locals wear enough pastels to make Abercrombie and Fitch look hardcore and where many of the black population still speak an African Creole called Gullah.<br />I've been here two hours and in that time I've met one of those Gullah speakers, scoped out the one indie rock club, had two shots bought for me, tried grits and lumpy cakes at the Crab Shack and found a new friend to show me around tomorrow on my one day off before the conferencing starts – Dani, a 21-year-old determined to get a tattoo since South Carolina just made them legal (except on the neck!) a few months ago. I told her I'd check out a few parlours with her since I'm such an expert. Ha. I like it here already, 90 per cent humidity included.<br />Can't wait for all the music and music discussions to begin – even though I'm pretty sure I'm the only gal and definitely the youngest. Just found out we are attending a Menotti tribute on Thursday in addition to the other three shows a day and seminars. Phillip Glass playing five keyboards at once in his new Leonard Cohen opera, Book of Longing. Outta sight!<br />I still haven't decided between a few days in Savannah, Georgia, or going up to Myrtle Beach to see Dolly at the Summer Sun Festival. I'm leaning Savannah: ante-bellum architecture and Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. Good times.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-57795056568974088322010-04-19T07:44:00.001-07:002010-04-19T07:44:56.111-07:00Words, fidelities and a 97-year-old BFF?From MySpace: 08 Apr 07 Sunday <br /> <br /><br />I had a friend who I thought was somewhat shallow share something very deep once. He said: "We do nothing from the goodness of our hearts. It's either from guilt or for glory."<br />I've been thinking about this lately in regards to a forging relationship. Not a dude. No, my ball and chain is a sweet, lonely little old lady who will do just about anything to hang out with me.<br />Most of you have heard me talk about Rose.<br />I met Rose a few weeks ago in the lobby of my apartment building – yes, that house of low-income all-sorts that includes a plethora of drug dealers, escorts, exchange students and the guy with a hook-hand across from me.<br />Rose introduced herself as 97-years-old, with no family and wanted me to help her walk across the street to a café. I offered her a ride and gave her my card.<br />Next thing you know it's trips to Wal-Mart for bras, Paul's Motor Inn for Salisbury steak, Wellburn's for TV dinners, Sirens for sweaters and McDonald's for seniors 50 cent coffee day.<br />When I took her to Med Grill for dinner she whipped out a giant old school magnifying glass to read the menu and I bust out laughing as the bar star servers' jaws dropped at the old lady with the giant eye.<br />Rose is generally pleasant and kind. She says "God Bless" a lot and loves to ask me about my life. It was pretty funny when she gushed over my fishnet stockings one day, until she asked me where she could get some.<br />I thought this was kind of weird, as was her lack of memory, history and ability to appear from one era. Most old ladies I know dress in the era they felt most stylish in – which for anyone over 80 usually translates to polyester pants, a big blouse and a curlered hair helmet.<br />When I first met Rose she was wearing white yoga pants, a red '80s corduroy jacket, fanny pack and gold banana clip. Imagine this on someone with no teeth, like Mother Theresa the Jazzercise version.<br />She would also tell me nothing about her life. Only that she never married, had children and didn't regret "doing something stupid like get tied down caring for somebody else all the time."<br />Hearing this rant from someone semi-stalking a stranger 60 years their junior for a coffee or a ride just reassured my desire to one day birth many a child if only for the guarantee of friends.<br />But I could tell there was a back story there with Rose, so I wasn't too surprised when her pastor, Marc, called me up to let in me in a few details before I took on more Rose than I could handle. But he did drop a few shockers.<br />Rose is actually 85. She has dementia and is schizophrenic. Until a few years ago she was living on the streets, distraught and aimless after the state took trusteeship of the money she inherited – apparently a considerable sum.<br />Marc and his wife helped her get into a mental ward and thought she could live there until a few visits revealed, "It was a hell-hole full of vegetables," he said.<br />So they hooked her up with an apartment and she's been doing pretty well since – minus the crazy boredom.<br />Which, I guess, is where I've come in. Marc wanted to know how big a role on Team Rose I wanted to play. I told him I couldn't commit to any responsibility for her, but I'd take her out once a week.<br />Besides my newly adopted World Vision child, I don't do much for anybody. And what's an hour or two a week anyway: One less yoga class, CSI episode, Value Village browse? Rose is just as entertaining.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-22572259858328329712010-04-19T07:40:00.000-07:002010-04-19T07:41:26.483-07:00PG, Pine Beetle, Pasta and Palominos…From MySpace: 10 Oct 06 Tuesday <br /> <br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">PG, Pine Beetle, Pasta and Palominos…</span><br />(This is my first blahg attempt..I couldn't figure out that livejournal thing girls. Sorry. But here's a story..)<br /><br />It's been four years since I was last in Prince George.<br />I don't remember much from that trip considering it was a whirlwind of tears, old women in black, a language I barely understand and booze, all brought on by the untimely death of my Nonno. For anyone who hasn't heard the story of the demise of Felice Bevacqua, my jolly, spitfire grandfather had a heart attack after beating a thief with his cane when the scumbag burst in on him mid-prayer La Madonna Degli Angeli and tried to rip-off the wallet chained to his polyester brown pants. He lived and died a fighter. He was a great man.<br />Anyway, as I drove into town with my cousin Mike the first thing I noticed were the colours of the landscape. The low, rolling hills of spruce and pine trees were green, yellow and... red?<br />How beautiful. Or so it seemed. As we got closer I could see the trees were not red, but rust-coloured and leafless, like lifeless statues of trees put under some cruel mythological curse. Pine Beetle. I'd heard all about the devastating effects of the bug that, in nature's balance, should have had most of its population die off each year in the frigid winters. Even with all the articles and hype about climate change (including a cameo in Al Gore's Inconvenient Truth) I never imagined the Pine Beetle infestation to be such an in-your-face cancer on the landscape.<br />You'd think it'd be enough to convert the town towards some serious environmentalism. Not really. "Government..s problem."<br />Everyone's talking about the big boom coming. Oil exploration apparently. "Gonna be the next Fort McMurray, eh." That's what PG needs, more gas money for all the ginormous F-series Fords and trips to Wal-Mart.<br />Okay, that's enough..<br />So we get to Nonna..s new apartment and I..m relieved to see all the stuff from the old place downtown is there: black velvet painting of the Last Supper, light-up Jesus statues, Pope plate collection and walls filled from floor to ceiling with family photos.<br />Nonna's kitchen table is covered in flour and tiny round gnocchi she..s made (potato dumpling pasta.) It's her specialty and she plans to stuff me with it and anything else she can over the next two days: perpeta (deep fried rice balls), pitoli (deep-fried zucchini flowers) and shitty homemade wine from noon until I pass out.<br />"You hungry, you wanna eat a something, I make a nice a pasta for you, Mange, Mange.." she sing-songs in her shrill accent that has yet to fade though she's lived in this country since 1965.<br />We listen to Mario Lanza cassette tapes, drink espresso and watch Italian variety shows. She gives me the little nuggets of family history I've come here for.<br />I find out that Nonno's biological mother had 16 bastard children she left on various people..s doorsteps after her husband left her to go to America and she became the mistress of a well-known doctor. And that her husband eventually came back in his sixties and she took care of him until he died. Even Nonna was shocked. "Why she take him back I no know. E pazza!"<br />She gives me hell for breaking up with PW and then tells me her friends are coming over to meet me. Panic ensues.<br />When I was a kid Nonna used to invite her old lady friends over and make me massage the blue rivers of varicose veins on their thin white chicken-skinned legs. They..d say, "Young a hands make a better" and slip me a dollar bill.<br />But these friends were cool and mostly compared notes about their ailing bodies and gossiped.<br />The highlight of the trip was an unexpectedly stellar night on the town. I asked my cousin Lisa to take me out for a PG special: Inn of the North, slots at the new casino and I wanted to go to the Generator (that's where my parents met), but we settled on the Cadillac Ranch.<br />I'd never really been to a country bar and didn't know what to expect. Luckily, it was packed with cute young cowboys, crazy old cougars and had a live band. Our dance cards were more than full before we'd barely stepped in the door.<br />I learned to two-step by the best dancer of the bunch--a green-eyed wrangler in tight wrangler jeans, a shirt that said "wrangler" on the front and "cowboys rule" on the back, cowboy hat and boots. He wasn't too much of a redneck, but did sporadically "Yee-haw!!" at the top of his lungs and stomp his boots like a crazed gorilla.<br />(Note to the wise: don't mention Brokeback Mountain any place north of Hope.)<br />So at one point, the cowboy asks me if I want to go outside and look at his horse. I ask him if that's some kind of cowboy-code line and he says not at all. He really did have his horses outside in a trailer hooked up to his truck (F350, bleh!). Three Palominos and beautiful flaxen pony. What majestic, beautiful, sad creatures.<br />That was enough of cowboy for me, but I think cuz is a fully converted buckle bunny.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-22617894011233002352010-04-19T07:30:00.000-07:002010-04-19T07:35:35.182-07:00The Telemarketer Blues<span style="font-style:italic;">* I just found this 2006 Toronto Star piece about my short stint as a telemarketer. Reminds me to appreciate my life now.</span> <br /><br />George tells me to call him at his phone on the other side of the<br />table and run through the script. It's a sink or swim exercise, he<br />says.<br />"Hello my name is…I'm calling on behalf of…can I count on your support<br />of $250 tonight?" I blubber into the phone.<br />When I'm done, George walks over and says, "That was the best cold<br />read I've ever heard. Congratulations, you're going to do well in this<br />business."<br />This is how, at 27-years-old and six weeks shy of graduating with a<br />second university degree, I became a telemarketer.<br />Working for minimum wage six nights a week at a crap job after a full<br />day of school or work is an act of survival.<br />I'd managed fine in the land of the privileged through student loans,<br />scholarships and bursaries. But a clerical mix-up on my loan documents<br />in the fall delayed the cash a few months and before I realized it I'd<br />racked up nearly $7, 000 on my credit card, had no income and less<br />than a hundred bucks in the bank. I completely freaked and hit the job<br />boards.<br />I found the telemarketing job advertised on craigslist as "a chance to<br />support valuable arts institutions." Essentially, it was a call centre<br />asking for donations for museums and galleries across the country. Not<br />a bad gig in the telemarketing world.<br />I have a friend who sold cell phone minutes from a call centre on the<br />outskirts of Ottawa. He couldn't leave his desk or even pee without<br />asking someone for permission. He said everyone he worked with spent<br />their time trying figure out ways to screw the company– stealing pens,<br />faking calls and getting high – in sheer revenge for the thankless<br />monotony of the job.<br />My first night of telemarketing went better than expected. No one I<br />called yelled at me. Only two hung up. I brought in $250!<br />Even better, the people I worked with were really nice. They<br />high-fived each other when a donation came in and gave thumbs-ups.<br />Mark, an out-of-work photographer delivered a heartfelt speech about<br />how his co-workers helped him overcome the recent death of his dog.<br />Sue, a retired grandmotherly-type, left lozenges at every body's<br />station in case our voices went hoarse.<br />I sat beside Teresa, a friendly Filipino woman who was always late<br />because she worked at a coffee shop all day.<br />The worst part was the walk home up Parliament to my apartment at<br />Dundas past the druggies, prostitutes and leering perverts. I'd just<br />read in the newspaper a woman my age was grabbed by a stranger along<br />the same route, raped and beaten badly. At least I had my pepper<br />spray. Damned if was going to spend an hour's earnings on public<br />transit or a cab.<br />It didn't take long for the sub-human tag of being a telemarketer to<br />sink in. I was calling people who'd willingly given their phone<br />numbers to the gallery we were fundraising for, but many still<br />insisted on being jerks – slamming down the phone, interrupting<br />mid-script or going on about how dare I disturb them at home.<br />Excuse me. I'm sorry I took two minutes from your Pilates workout or<br />beer on the patio to ask for a charitable donation. Go ahead. Take out<br />all your frustrations on the starving student making less than eight<br />bucks an hour doing this.<br />For the most part, people were gracious and generous. Thus proving my<br />theory there are two kinds of people in this world: the good<br />(inherently kind enough to be nice to telemarketers) and evil (those<br />who are not).<br />I'll admit, knowing I'd eventually get my loan and bursary money, land<br />a salary-paying job after graduation and be done with telemarketing<br />didn't make me a poster girl for poverty-line living.<br />I was a visitor to this world. Not like Teresa. She got fired for not<br />bringing in enough money. I felt sorry for her coming in to work<br />already exhausted every night, having the people she called always ask<br />where her accent was from and if she was calling from India or some<br />place that took jobs away from hard-working Canadians.<br />I lasted eight weeks as a telemarketer, long enough to pay for food<br />and rent. I quit the day I received a bursary cheque from my school.<br />In the end the only thing I stole was the address of a very depressed<br />elderly woman I'd spent at least half an hour with on the phone. She<br />told me she was broke, lonely and felt invisible at her senior's home.<br />I was the first person who'd called her in months. A few days ago I<br />popped a gift for her in the mail – a colourful book by crazy-haired<br />hippie lady called Wild Succulent Woman. I hope she likes it.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-62256604705813750952009-12-01T13:23:00.000-08:002009-12-01T13:34:52.623-08:00World Aids Day<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqt_M30k680RLVQ7gWRigXvDJVUfNGEXl7-2HhqFXY0pjwR3je9O3sd8w_tkmbsuVIj2cKgIqhFaPf-vTS7qFN1dJsLUetgaBAgg0yMMuyCCbeNsb7uDe4hidfVwFjea-NJqB0TfAdZpiy/s1600/n577325399_1013421_6357.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqt_M30k680RLVQ7gWRigXvDJVUfNGEXl7-2HhqFXY0pjwR3je9O3sd8w_tkmbsuVIj2cKgIqhFaPf-vTS7qFN1dJsLUetgaBAgg0yMMuyCCbeNsb7uDe4hidfVwFjea-NJqB0TfAdZpiy/s400/n577325399_1013421_6357.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5410384299971995410" /></a><br />It's World Aids Day...Please check out Caia Connection - a Mozambique orphan and palliative care program recently adopted by Victoria's Kapasseni Project, Gettin' Higher Choir and the amazing Alfazemas.<br />Nothing has affected me more - personally, professionally and spiritually - than witnessing the horrific toll HIV-AIDS takes on a person and their communities. <br />My soul was awakened seeing the dignity in suffering, community spirit and desire to help in Mozambique and Rwanda in 2008.<br />If you want to help, I am looking for someone to takeover posting the stories of Rwandan children survivors. A new blog or site would be best, something easy they can update. This would be in English, French and possibly Kinyarwanda - I have a student translator in Kigali helping.<br />Please contact me.<br />Peace,<br />Sarah<br /><a href="http://www.caiaconnection.com/">http://www.caiaconnection.com/</a>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-29119512090398663942009-03-22T11:14:00.000-07:002009-03-22T11:22:21.727-07:00Rwanda Clinic: Are Words Enough?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgng1GGHRPFHj4hF9G6CD5z1SfcWRjr78qWuqUvCMuFQwM9mYUdXwndd-2hsYyWYMZ6g20z9ivKs2WTYQ3D8j9YjrRNUOvcUqkQqN6EqtRNEc_7dmhDVQ4y_uVmtuThiiJZd5r8EGu908Hm/s1600-h/Image003.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgng1GGHRPFHj4hF9G6CD5z1SfcWRjr78qWuqUvCMuFQwM9mYUdXwndd-2hsYyWYMZ6g20z9ivKs2WTYQ3D8j9YjrRNUOvcUqkQqN6EqtRNEc_7dmhDVQ4y_uVmtuThiiJZd5r8EGu908Hm/s400/Image003.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316079078222091394" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_Ba52J_PgLgQZt9ZVnMqa_sU8ckaZ-Rz_DEyjxVOGTtfSZVUFt-mfcrH7TroLOPE5UiEp6HQ8n3yaDcuM1z-0O-zSt2NHLntGEbcAAuSqaJ74BX_LUM3g8oIj9fBCOmf5ptM3vxavD1YG/s1600-h/Image000.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_Ba52J_PgLgQZt9ZVnMqa_sU8ckaZ-Rz_DEyjxVOGTtfSZVUFt-mfcrH7TroLOPE5UiEp6HQ8n3yaDcuM1z-0O-zSt2NHLntGEbcAAuSqaJ74BX_LUM3g8oIj9fBCOmf5ptM3vxavD1YG/s400/Image000.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316078956816493922" /></a><br />Last year, I reported in Rwanda for the Times Colonist on a fellowship from the Jack Webster Foundation.<br />I met Josee Mukamusoni at the We-Actx clinic where she worked. In bits of English, French and Kinyarwanda she told me the her story of the genocide - in which her husband and child died in her arms, how she was raped and contracted HIV and the years of fear and poverty after. Her job at the clinic is to listen to other women's stories and help them get their lives back. She asked me to share some of their stories. Here is the text and photos she sent. <br /><br />STORY ABOUT SHAKILA.<br /><br /><br />An other patient I received is called UWAMAHORO Shakila ID 223825 ASS SWAA,She is 20 years old, she has various social problems, her parents are both dead and stayed with 4 young sisters, she does not study and has no job.<br />After the death of the parents, these children joined the friend of their mum but this one was also HIV/AIDS infected and died very shortly.<br />The husband of this woman started having sex with this girl by force and slept with her many times. When he knew that it has been know by the public, he threw her away. she went to live with her elder sister who was already married and she was living with the other 4 young sisters.<br />After arriving there, her elder sister has been arrested and been prisonned while his husband exiled and none knows where he is.<br />This girl is responsible for her 4 young sisters in addition to other 3 children left by her elder sister.<br />They are now 8 children; they had no money to rent the house and the owner made them get out. Shakila along with all of these children went to the friend of their sister who is now in jail. This friend who received them sells Avocadoes and tomatoes on illegal basket.<br />All of these things happened when she was only 16 years old, she got tested in WE_ACTx and and her result was Positive, she live with HIV/AIDS and she is under ARVTreatment, she has no hope for tomorrow, she is always unhappy; even though we advise her but her life is not good.<br />That’s all about her<br /><br />MUKAMUSONI M.Josée<br /><br /><br />REPORT OF February 5th, 2009<br /><br />I have received a patient called IYAKAREMYE Felix, ID 222614/ASS he is 12 years old and now studying in 2nd year of primary school and under Bactrim treatment.<br />This boy has only his mum because his dad is dead.<br />He has 1 brother and one sister called MUNGANYINKA Jeannine who is 14 years old studying in 4th, but his sister is not HIV/AIDS infected.<br />In fact one his brothers got lost so long time like 10 years ago, they are now <br />Their mum is 40 years old but she has got a boyfriend of 20 years old, they are all tested in WE_ACTx but this woman is HIV/AIDS infected unlike the boy who is Negative but their relationship remained the same. As they were living as married ones, the woman was already pregnant.<br />Finally, they both decided to live together but not with the children; the woman sold every thing they had including their land, on the day of leaving these children though that they would go together along with their mum’s boy friend but he made them get out of the car by force and started leaving together with their mum.<br />The children had to do nothing else than crying and calling their mum but she was already gone.<br />They went to see a friend of her mum and stayed they for 4 days as she was not able to feed them and care about them, she sent them to their grand mother(the mother of their mum) who was 85 years old, she weaves the handcraft object to earn her lives.<br />This girl cares about her brother does not study any more.<br />This is all about what he told me.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-16769178358310394132009-03-22T11:08:00.000-07:002009-03-22T11:14:25.089-07:00Rwanda Clinic: The original story<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVFa0zwBNVQlumCXaq4EZpd92Kq8fFc9ZOJjI5LjC6NW7Hoc3DROSB61PpgdoR79sPCoqwoIS21atRXFW7VFIJfXy4E5gtDHByfLF1f24OoVX6v7Q1Eq7hsHMW3KvjC4Q5StHL9B-61V5N/s1600-h/DSCN0652.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVFa0zwBNVQlumCXaq4EZpd92Kq8fFc9ZOJjI5LjC6NW7Hoc3DROSB61PpgdoR79sPCoqwoIS21atRXFW7VFIJfXy4E5gtDHByfLF1f24OoVX6v7Q1Eq7hsHMW3KvjC4Q5StHL9B-61V5N/s400/DSCN0652.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316077079774253298" /></a><br />The original story:<br /><br />From despair to dignity<br />In Rwanda, a bustling clinic propels women's recovery from rape, effects of genocide<br /> <br />Sarah Petrescu<br />Times Colonist<br /><br />Sunday, April 20, 2008<br /><br />Friends Maria Bahizi, left, and Miriam Jean work on colourful items for sale at the We-Actx clinic in Kigali. The work initiative is a project of the clinic that helps women dealing with HIV.<br />CREDIT: Sarah Petrescu, Times Colonist<br />Friends Maria Bahizi, left, and Miriam Jean work on colourful items for sale at the We-Actx clinic in Kigali. The work initiative is a project of the clinic that helps women dealing with HIV.<br /><br />Dozens of women chatted while toddlers played and babies cried in the waiting room at the downtown Kigali health clinic run by the U.S.-based Women's Equity to Access for Care and Treatment, or WE-ACTx.<br /><br />The bustling, cheery atmosphere of the clinic contrasts with the grim reason it exists -- to bring treatment and dignity to women raped and infected with the HIV virus during the country's 1994 genocide.<br /><br />"We see about 100 patients every day at this clinic," said Joseph Hakizimana, 29, the organization's country clinical co-ordinator and one of its founding employees. With three clinics and two mobile units, they serve almost 5,000, nearly half of those receiving free, life-saving, anti-retroviral medication. "We can still do more, especially in the rural areas where women and men don't even know to get tested."<br /><br />Hakizimana is passionate about community-driven action in addressing HIV/AIDS in Rwanda. He will be in Victoria this week to speak about the power of grassroots women's organizations in creating access to care and treatment of HIV/AIDS, a pandemic that affects all of Africa.<br /><br />"Because of a lack of doctors, nurses, infrastructure and the aid organizations who concentrate themselves in cities, many people are not being reached," Hakizimana said.<br /><br />Hakizimana was a high school student in Butare during the 1994 genocide, in which 800,000 people were killed in 100 days, and 250,000 brutal rapes occurred. The trauma and the aftermath moved him to study nursing at university and to volunteer to work with his mother's organization IMBABAZI, helping AIDS orphans and widows in the rural Cyangugu province, the farthest from Kigali.<br /><br />"I loved it. That was a huge motivator for me," said Hakizimana.<br /><br />His ensuing work with genocide-survivor groups led him to become one of WE-ACTx's first employees in 2004.<br /><br />The organization formed after American journalist Anne-Christine D'Adesky was contacted by a group of Rwandan women who were raped and infected with HIV during the genocide. They were dying while the men who raped them were being treated in jail awaiting trial.<br /><br />D'Adesky made international news of the injustice but said it was, "a time when words were not enough."<br /><br />With the help of two friends -- a scientist and a doctor -- and the collaboration of grassroots women's groups and the government in Rwanda, they were able to form the clinic, which has been a hub for research, primary health care and family support since its inception.<br /><br />Hakizimana said he is in awe of the women he works with. "They led this movement. They are very active," he said. "To be raped or cut by a machete and then find out you are sick from it. To have to explain this to your children who are now old enough to know how HIV is transmitted and want to know why they are positive, this is not easy."<br /><br />Several of the women who came to WE-ACTx as clients now work there.<br /><br />Josee Mukamusoni's gleam when she talks about her work in the family programs belies the hell she went through during the genocide.<br /><br />"My goal is to have all the families I work with get tested and know their status," Mukamusoni, 42, told me in Kinyarwanda through a translator. "I have so much gratitude for this work. I was rock bottom and now that past is fading."<br /><br />Mukamusoni and her husband, a petroleum product salesman, lived in Butare with their three children before the genocide. He was killed along with most of their relatives.<br /><br />Mukamusoni broke into tears as she described the night her daughter died.<br /><br />"I had two of the children on me, one on each hip like this," she gestured. "The military men came and she was shot in my arms."<br /><br />Mukamusoni is also a victim of rape. She suspected she might have HIV when the man who assaulted her died of AIDS in prison in 1998. The stigma of rape and HIV prevented her from getting tested until 2004, when she came to WE-ACTx and found out she was positive.<br /><br />"Rape was just a weapon of war for them, to cause a slow, painful death of disgrace. Women were treated like animals, abused in their own houses after the men were killed," said Mukamusoni.<br /><br />"I feel sad hearing these stories. They remind me of my own. But helping gives me a way to do something and, at least, help pay my rent. Life does go on."<br /><br />Generating income is another leg of the WE-ACTx project, with an inventive 25-year-old, Frank Mugisha, at its helm.<br /><br />"Everyone was coming here saying, 'Frank, food, we need food,' because poverty is a real issue and it's hard to treat people who have nothing to eat," said Mugisha, who co-ordinates the income-generating craft co-operative, Ineza. "We needed to do something sustainable, that didn't cost a lot of money."<br /><br />Mugisha insisted I see the project for myself.<br /><br />"It's very cool," he said. So we took a taxi across town to a small gated house where a dozen or so women sat side-by-side sewing everything from yoga bags to little brown dolls on antique foot-pedal sewing machines.<br /><br />"The designs are the best ever," Mugisha beamed, showing off the reversible purses, lap-top bags and aprons he designed with the head seamstress, Sophie Nyiranawumuntu. They looked to western tourists and magazines for inspiration.<br /><br />"You won't see anything else like this here. Even the fabrics are the most beautiful and rare we could find."<br /><br />The women in the co-operative receive weekly wages, transportation, food and yoga classes. A constant stream of international visitors and aid workers purchase the items, as well as retailers in the U.S. and now at the online store at www.manosdemadres.org.<br /><br />spetrescu@tc.canwest.com<br /><br />Sarah Petrescu travelled to Rwanda and Mozambique as a winner of the Jack Webster Foundation for Journalism 'Seeing the World through New Eyes' Fellowship - a partnership with the Canadian International Development Agency for emerging journalists to report from developing countries.<br /><br />FACING AIDS<br /><br />IN RWANDA<br /><br />Some of the latest statistics compiled from the UNAIDS 2006 Update on the Global AIDS Epidemic and the United Nations 2008 Country Report<br /><br />- In 2006, about two-thirds of all persons infected with HIV (about 25 million) were living in sub-Saharan Africa.<br /><br />- AIDS deaths in sub-Saharan Africa represent 72 per cent of global AIDS deaths.<br /><br />- People living with HIV/AIDS in Rwanda: 190,000<br /><br />- AIDS deaths in 2005: 21,000<br /><br />- 75.8 per cent of women never tested for HIV.<br /><br />- 78.1 per cent of men never tested for HIV.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-53788727300784652372008-08-11T11:15:00.000-07:002008-08-11T11:42:11.202-07:00<iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dya62YovWiUcJ9C5Aq5ndSge5lex10q-kr_LEKaZa2VCY6h3-inonlzYlrscSkxG-7ie1zBXO_aq0qA8iOoVQ' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe><br /><br /><br />It is hard to explain the juxtaposition of joy and suffering in Africa. But you can feel it through beautiful music and dancing.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-86487991243272407492008-08-06T10:13:00.000-07:002008-08-06T10:22:02.657-07:00Sanitation Salvation<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1m5x-hn1kE3kWU3WpH70NbvZwvzlgXm2uFkQiN4ytKRcYM2pFOEyMv0wagWJdi9MogWxs6ADI0ofTbhku6YgAt48iUJfjeb-nvKj3zlU2vVdMdW-i96avesQMm3zzHXqvfu0OZPe_pChk/s1600-h/n577325399_1013448_7210.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1m5x-hn1kE3kWU3WpH70NbvZwvzlgXm2uFkQiN4ytKRcYM2pFOEyMv0wagWJdi9MogWxs6ADI0ofTbhku6YgAt48iUJfjeb-nvKj3zlU2vVdMdW-i96avesQMm3zzHXqvfu0OZPe_pChk/s400/n577325399_1013448_7210.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5231454210059799346" /></a><br /><br />When I was traveling through the Mozambique backcountry during the flood season last February, one of the biggest concerns in the displacement camps was over sanitation. Thousands of people lived in and around the murky stagnant waters, their latrines seeping into their wells. They used the nets given to them by NGOs - to protect against bug bites and malaria - for fishing in the putrid ponds. It was a disease disaster waiting to hit. A week after I left five people died of cholera.<br /><br />Now Manuel Miandica - my guide, translator, local aids educator - is taking action. He is building a public toilet for people to use but also to educate them about sanitation safety. If this one is successful, we'll help him fund raise for more.SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-64188483519807045532008-07-29T09:29:00.000-07:002008-07-29T09:37:12.562-07:00Small Change for a Big World Darfur event<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrAg0kfKWR9YKW_wz0JhcgxBv8bVmdPXjkQw0zwfig5tzJTpLlD3WNON_VKpD2o8XF3KBMUx_oYXVcSj8AMCl0DOhDwjG5kr9LZC2_65_JCmucg97hn7nOndAVITId7AHpChwoeT6q8v2-/s1600-h/n648965695_3622637_1540.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrAg0kfKWR9YKW_wz0JhcgxBv8bVmdPXjkQw0zwfig5tzJTpLlD3WNON_VKpD2o8XF3KBMUx_oYXVcSj8AMCl0DOhDwjG5kr9LZC2_65_JCmucg97hn7nOndAVITId7AHpChwoeT6q8v2-/s400/n648965695_3622637_1540.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5228474593218157778" border="0" /></a><br />The Small Change for a Big World awareness and fund raiser for Darfur was a success. Caitlin, Mari, Shane, Aviva, Taylor and I raised nearly $4,000 at the Habit/Mo:Le event. The best part was having so many people who attended come up and say how much the speakers affected them. We look forward to planning the next one!SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133279028508289890.post-12645035384723921212008-07-28T13:55:00.000-07:002008-07-28T14:05:05.281-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2EIIE8eA8IKdEb_fI_tVPwfjeac3azl3nSMGMqfAjsMKEg8BYGmUW8WEWF9_iVZGIG1kjlISygxuSPKCL0fTVk9RyVIA-BAUw8IW7IT5muIYJ04VX1MiOpDv7s_yhOQMxfbgWd-5sQKaL/s1600-h/23SenaSoccer.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2EIIE8eA8IKdEb_fI_tVPwfjeac3azl3nSMGMqfAjsMKEg8BYGmUW8WEWF9_iVZGIG1kjlISygxuSPKCL0fTVk9RyVIA-BAUw8IW7IT5muIYJ04VX1MiOpDv7s_yhOQMxfbgWd-5sQKaL/s400/23SenaSoccer.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5228171691517071186" border="0" /></a><br />School children in Sena, Mozambique.... These kids are my heart. They remind me of the beauty, hope and community in even the most desperate places.<br /><br />My stories about visiting the Alfazemas during one of Mozambique's worst flood seasons and the Kapasseni Society can be read here:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.kapasseni.org">http://www.kapasseni.org/updates.htm</a>SarahPetrescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02725738066883098166noreply@blogger.com0